FALLING INLOVE WITH A TOTAL STRANGER.

          YES!

it’s not impossible.

Trust me. I swear!

Damnit, how can i be so submissive to someone i haven’t meet yet in person?!

Yeah Yeah   call me crazy…  insane…whateva!

Can this be love? I guess so … ok ok this is it. I fall inlove with a stranger.

Man, is this me? I’m not supposed to act like this. It’s not normal.

My friends laughed at me already. grrr but who cares?

I AM CRAZY! yeah, crazy for YOU.

grrrr i hate this feeling but it’s a good feeling though. lol

So, can i sing?

Because of YOU, my life has changed …
because of YOU, i feel no shame …
I’ll tell the world, it’s because of YOU. lol

Shhh Shut up!

HOW TO BREAK UP WITH A WOMAN
By Kimberly Dawn Neumann

Breakups suck. There’s no other way to put it. But keep in mind that what happens in the moments before, during and after you deliver those three little words (“This isn’t working”) will forever determine how you’re remembered. Will you be that great guy she remembers wistfully… or the jerk she can’t believe she ever dated?

Unless there has been some egregious violation of the dating code — she did something so unforgivable you get a free pass to behave like an idiot — most women would ask for one thing: End it like a man, not a frat boy. “Dumping someone is never fun but if you’re clear about why your relationship has to end and you know that it’s time, you owe it to the woman to make the break,” says dating guru David Wygant, founder of www.flirtdaily.com. “Just be kind, honest within reason, and brief.”

With that in mind, we decided to gather input from women and experts about the best way to let a gal go.

Don’t do a disappearing act. Sadly this is an all too common tactic with men, but listen up… it’s just not cool. “My friends and I agree there’s nothing worse than fading away into oblivion!” says Stacey, 29, from Pensacola, FL. “Then the girl is left just wondering and waiting.” Women need some sort of closure, and you owe her some kind of explanation before you decide to vanish.

Do consider the timing. Though it’s not totally your responsibility to see how she survives the breakup, you can help ease the transition by considering when you break the news. “It’s thoughtful and courteous to be aware of what is going on in her life,” says JoAnn Magdoff, Ph.D., a psychotherapist in New York City, NY. In other words, don’t be an extra-special jerk by delivering the news when she’s already going through a rough patch. If she lost her job yesterday, give it a little time before having the big talk.

Don’t rely on technology. We live in a world of cell phones, Blackberries, and IMs, which means it’s easier than ever to get in touch with each other. But, please don’t use it as a way to escape confrontation. “Using technology to break up is a cowardly act—it means you don’t have the balls to face me,” says Kerry, 37, from Portsmouth, NH. “If you liked me enough to kiss me, sleep with me, have a romance with me, then I think the very least you can do is honor that connection by ending it in person.”

Do give her face time. You may be tempted to deliver the news and then get the heck out of there, but there’s nothing worse than bringing up the subject when you don’t have adequate time to discuss it. Yes, that means you will have to talk to her and you might have to witness some tears, but it’s the right thing to do. “My ex broke up with me by meeting me for a drink, and we had a very open and civilized conversation,” says Gigi, 39, from New York, NY. “Yes, it still hurt, but because of the classy way he handled it, we didn’t lose our friendship, too.”

Do choose your location wisely. There’s no reason to break the news behind closed doors—but a bit of privacy is a good thing. What you shouldn’t do is deliver the news someplace where she’ll lose dignity. “If you’re at a party surrounded by friends where everyone will see her if she bursts into tears, that’s not a good call,” says Wygant. “This is between the two of you, not your whole posse.” Wygant also suggests staying away from your favorite haunt or where you had your first date or anywhere that will evoke painful memories. Think neutral, think semi-private, and let her save face.

Don’t be too honest. Women need “reasons” so they can accept the breakup and move on. But there’s one big caveat… don’t be spiteful or hurtful. “Getting broken up with is insulting at some level and just being rejected feels bad enough. So why make the person feel worse?” says Laurie Puhn, J.D., author of Instant Persuasion: How to Change Your Words to Change Your Life. No woman wants to hear that you’re dumping her because she has bad breath or she’s no longer attractive to you or you’re insanely attracted to her best friend. These kinds of reflections shouldn’t be shared: “You’re no longer entitled to give advice or criticism because you aren’t her boyfriend anymore,” says Puhn. Instead, your reasons for breaking up should focus on how you two aren’t the right match. Try saying something like “Both of us are good people, but I don’t think we’re the right fit together.”

Don’t hedge. You start to deliver the news, you see her lip quiver, and you think, Oh no, she’s going to cry. Should you attempt to soften the blow by saying “Well, there might be a chance for us in the future but right now the timing isn’t good” or “Maybe when things quiet down at work” or “I think I just need a break”? No, no, no! Giving a woman a false sense of hope will not help her heal. “If you know it’s over, spare her the agony of pretending that you might call her sometime when you won’t,” says Dr. Magdoff. “If you really aren’t certain about the future, you can say ‘I’m not sure, but please don’t hold your breath…’”

Don’t freak if she gets emotional. We’re reputed to be the more sensitive sex, remember? So yes, there’s a chance that your gal might start sobbing or screaming or otherwise emoting (and you need to let her). “If she gets hostile or weepy, stay calm and let her get angry or hysterical for a little while; remember, you’ve been thinking about the breakup for weeks, she heard about it 10 seconds ago,” says Puhn. If she gets more and more worked up as the minutes pass, however, take your leave and give her some down time to adjust to the new information. “Before walking away, however, set a specific time to talk later to give her security that you’re willing to explain yourself and listen to what she has to say when she’s calmed down,” Puhn adds.

Don’t use the “It’s not you, it’s me” line. Everyone knows if someone leaves you it’s because you’re not who they want and that’s the bottom line. “Anyone on the receiving end of this line can see through it,” says Magdoff. She suggests a better phrase to utter might be, “Who you are and what you want are absolutely terrific, but where I am right now is a very different place.”

Do break up with her before starting anything else! That’s called cheating! And if you intentionally stray in an effort to make her break up with you, you’re a chicken and deserve whatever reaction you get! Also, forget about using the “I’ve met someone else” escape clause. Introducing a new love into a breakup discussion only tortures your soon-to-be ex. “After three years together, my boyfriend ended it with me over the phone by saying he’d met another woman on his trip to Europe,” says Jenny, 30, from Seattle, WA. “I spent the next two years wondering, What’s it like for them? Is it different from when he and I were together? Do they order the same kind of takeout? Do they listen to the same music we listened to? Do they laugh as much? Do they laugh more? And what makes her so much more appealing than me?” Get the point? Mentioning another woman really hurts and intensifies the pain.

Do keep in touch, but only on special occasions. Calling just to check up on her in a week or a month is not really helpful. It just confuses things and catapults you back into the forefront of her mind. There is one exception here though… the special occasion. “If it’s her birthday or a holiday and you were very close, then it is sweet to call to wish her well,” says Puhn. However, don’t call to make plans, don’t call to discuss sensitive issues and don’t talk for longer than 10 minutes. “Be acquaintances and keep in mind that acquaintances rarely talk more than twice a year,” says Puhn.

Don’t engage in break-up sex. We know… it’s comfortable, she’s vulnerable, and you think one more time won’t hurt anything. Wrong. When you get intimate she’ll be reminded of the amazing physical connection you two had, and suddenly you’re right back in it. Do you really want to go through another breakup? Ex sex doesn’t end things…it just drags it out.

Do reassure her. One final point—let her know that she mattered. Puhn suggests saying something like “I enjoyed being with you, and I value the time we spent together, but we just aren’t right for the long run.” She needs to know that you didn’t consider her ‘a waste of time’ or unimportant. That will help her risk giving her heart to someone else in the future.

HOW TO BREAK UP WITH A GUY
By Dan Bova

Let’s face it, there are no easy ways to end a relationship. But if you understand what really makes men tick, there are ways to make it a little less horrible. Here are some insider tips from the mouths of the broken-hearted — and some love gurus — on how to let a guy down easy. Use them next time you need a send a fella packin’.

Be definitive.
When telling a guy that it is over, be clear that it is absolutely, positively O-V-E-R. “Sometimes we may be inclined to leave the door open — either to leave options open for ourselves or to soften the blow of the breakup for the other person — but this is dangerous territory,” says April Masini, author of Date Out of Your League. It might seem nice to offer the possibility that one day in the future, you two will find your way back into each other’s arms, but all this does is give the poor sap false hope. And with false hope come drunken calls at 3 a.m. asking if you’re ready to take him back yet. “Make it clear that he needs to move on,” says John Seeley, M.A., author of Get Unstuck! The Simple Guide to Restart Your Life. “Guys would rather hear the truth and then know what they need to do to move forward in their lives.”

Don’t let him be the last to know.
Sure, talking through your feelings with a friend can be helpful when working up the courage to break things off, but try to limit yourself to how many people hear the test-run of your dumping speech. Eventually, some one is going to blab, and as any guy will tell you, being the last to know that you’ve been dumped is not fun. “My best friend told me that he heard my girlfriend was thinking of breaking up with me,” says Dave, 32, from Long Island, NY. “I later found out that all of my friends knew before I did. I was so pissed off and humiliated. I felt like the biggest fool on earth, walking around telling every one how in love I was, and all of them knowing she was about to can me. It was the worst.”

Don’t use a keyboard.
The Internet is great for many things: Locating discount airfares, paying credit card bills, wasting hundreds of hours looking at weird sites; the list goes on and on. But one thing that is not on that list and never should be is dropping a boyfriend like a bad habit. “My ex dumped me twice online,” says Chris, 31, from Washington, MO. “Once by email after we’d spent the weekend together; the second time over IM. At least ‘woman up’ and tell me in person!” Seriously, canceling a relationship like a credit card will put you in his Worst Girlfriend Hall of Fame for life. “Answering machine, emails, Post-its and faxes are not cool ways to break up,” says April Masini. “If you’ve spent more than three dates with the person — or if you’ve slept together — you owe him a face-to-face sit-down.” If you’re a total coward, the phone can be an acceptable termination device—but only for short-term relationships.

Steer clear of fake excuses.
OK, you don’t have to tell someone point-blank that he is boring, weird, smelly or all of the above, but lying your way out of a relationship is almost always going to backfire. He’ll feel twice as bad when he learns the truth, and you’ll feel like an idiot. “I went out a few times with this chick, and we talked a few times afterward,” says John, 34, from Virginia. “She worked as a government contractor at a submarine base and told me she’d been accepted to a top-secret program in Arizona that would last at least six months. Long story short: She was lying, and I bumped into her a month later. And this was after we had a conversation about how lame it was when people couldn’t be honest!” If you want either one of you to maintain your dignity, tell him the truth. You don’t have to be brutally honest, though. “I just don’t feel a connection with you” is a perfectly good way of saying, “You are too ugly” or “I didn’t know someone could kiss that badly.”

Be brief.
“Keep it short and sweet,” says Stephany Alexander, relationship expert at womansavers.com. Unless you’ve been together for years and years, no breakup should last more than 30 minutes. You don’t need to give him every reason you want to end things: Just name one or two major problems, and be done with it. The last thing you want is having him interpret your litany of ways he’s a loser as things he can change to win you back. Make it clear that this isn’t a negotiation. It may seem cruel to be brusque, but like ripping off a Band-Aid, the faster you do it, the faster you’ll feel better.

Avoid the drama.
A guy with wounded pride and hurt feelings can get verbally abusive. Try to diffuse the situation with silence. “Don’t engage with him,” says April Masini. “Listen. Be quiet. Don’t respond.” Don’t fuel the fire by defending yourself. Let him get it all out, then leave. If you’re worried that the guy might hurt himself or someone else in the wake of your breakup, call a counselor or a police officer. Trying to take on a dangerous situation by yourself is just that—dangerous.

Secure a break-up buddy.
“Breaking up can be overwhelming,” says April Masini, “and it may cause you to want to call your ex for contact or comfort. After you break up, have plans to meet with a friend. Debrief over lunch and a movie.” Remove his number from your cell phone while you’re at it. Post-break-up conversations tend to lead to post-break-up sex, and next thing you know, you’re having brunch together and wondering how the heck you wound up with this guy again. If you want to touch base to see how he’s doing, give it a couple of months at least. If he’s still sweet on you, any contact (no matter how innocent) is going to be interpreted as a ray of hope that love will spring again.

IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT PEOPLE THINK OR SAY…

I DON’T LIVE TO PLEASE THEM …

WHAT MATTERS IS, I’VE MADE THE MOST OF WHAT I HAVE …

I HAD FUN,  I LEARNED FROM WHAT I’VE DONE …

AND I’VE LIVED THROUGH IT ALL DESPITE THE GOSSIPS AND INTRIGUES …

THAT’S BEING REAL !

JUST LIVE A LIFE FEARLESS OF OTHER PEOPLE’S SHADOW …

SO, DO I LOOK LIKE I CARE?!

MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS PEOPLE …

DO YOUR OWN THING !!!

What character do you turn into when getting drunk?

* i am a friendly drunk

* talkative drunk

* i can dance and grind when i’m drunk ( so dance with me and let’s see if u can handle my naughty moves ) ~wink~

* i am a naughty drunk hell yeah!

>> the rest u figure it out! to those who were witnesses of how bloody i am when drunk please do leave a comment. lol

I just don’t know why til now i still love to listen to these songs. i like the lyrics, though the words are not pleasant but i still do like it.

The song is about a guy who have been cheated on by his slut girlfriend. oh poor boy! well, that’s life…girls can do the same. so guys how does it feel huh?

Actually, there’s the girl’s answer to the song and see for yourself how bitchy she is! GO GIRL!

And i’m giving you links for you to see and listen to the song. enjoy! check this out :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrOmcTZ7OZ4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=md4u8Zlfw4Q

"FUCK IT (I Don’t Want You Back)"
By: EAMON

Whoa oh oh
Ooh hooh
No No No

[Verse 1:]
See, I dont know why I liked you so much
I gave you all, of my trust
I told you, I loved you, now thats all down the drain
Ya put me through pain, I wanna let u know how I feel

[Chorus:]
Fuck what I said it dont mean shit now
Fuck the presents might as well throw em out
Fuck all those kisses, they didn’t mean jack
Fuck you, you hoe, I dont want you back

Fuck what I said it dont mean shit now
Fuck the presents might as well throw em out
Fuck all those kisses they didn’t mean jack
Fuck you, you hoe, I dont want you back

[Verse 2:]
You thought, you could
Keep this shit from me, yeah
Ya burnt bitch, I heard the story
Ya played me, ya even gave him head
Now ya askin for me back
Ya just another act, look elsewhere
Cuz ya done with me

Fuck what I said it dont mean shit now
Fuck the presents might as well throw em out
Fuck all those kisses they didn’t mean jack
Fuck you, you hoe, I dont want you back

Fuck what I said it dont mean shit now
Fuck the presents might as well throw em out
Fuck all those kisses they didn’t mean jack
Fuck you, you hoe, I dont want you back

Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah

Ya questioned, did I care
You could ask anyone, I even said
Ya were my great one
Now its, over, but I do admit I’m sad.
It hurts real bad, I cant sweat that, cuz I loved a hoe

Fuck what I said it dont mean shit now
Fuck the presents might as well throw em out
Fuck all those kisses they didn’t mean jack
Fuck you, you hoe, I dont want you back

Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
Oh oh
Uh huh yeah
[Until the end]

The girl’s answer…

"FUCK U RIGHT BACK"
by: FRANKEE

EAMON -VS- FRANKEE

Oh oh
Oooh
No no no

(You know there is two sides to every story)

See I don’t know why you cryin’ like a bitch
Talkin’ shit like a snitch
Why you write a song ’bout me
If you really didn’t care
You wouldn’t wanna share
Tellin’ everybody just how you feel

Fuck what I did was your fault somehow
Fuck the presents, I threw all that shit out
Fuck all the cryin’ it didn’t mean jack
Well guess what yo, fuck you right back

Fuck what I did was your fault somehow
Fuck the presents, I threw all that shit out
Fuck all the cryin’ it didn’t mean jack
Well guess what yo, fuck you right back

You thought you could really make me moan
I had better sex all alone (ha ha ha ha)
I had to turn to your friend
Now you want me to come back
You must be smokin’ crack
Im goin’ elsewhere and thats a fact

Fuck all those nights I moaned real loud
Fuck it, I faked it, aren’t you proud
Fuck all those nights that you broke my back
Well guess what yo, your sex was wack

Fuck all those nights I moaned real loud
Fuck it, I faked it, aren’t you proud
Fuck all those nights that you broke my back
Well guess what yo, your sex was wack

Whoa whoa
Uh uh yea

Whoa whoa
Uh uh yea

Whoa whoa
Uh uh yea

Whoa whoa
Uh uh yea

You questioned did I care
Maybe I would have if you woulda gone down there
Now it’s over
But I do admit i’m glad I didn’t catch your crabs
I can’t sweat that cause I got to go

Fuck what I did was your fault somehow
Fuck the presents, I threw all that shit out
Fuck all the cryin’ it didn’t mean jack
Well guess what yo, fuck you right back.

oh oh
uh uh yea
oh oh
uh uh yea
oh oh
uh uh yea
oh oh
uh uh yea

You made me do this

I got a challenge by AwesomeZara, my very fave blogger on myspace. The challenge seems a li’l difficult.

50 things people might not know just by looking at you.

As you can see on my profile, you might think that you knew alot about me already but hey guys, we can’t please everyone! i know my profile says it all but i can be a walking contradiction sometimes! lol

But I love a challenge. So I’m going to try and think of 50 things you may or may not know about me.

SO HERE IT GOES:

1) I have two brothers, the older one is in jail for drug trafficking and the younger one is a gay. damn!

2) hate drama okay? but i can be a cry-baby when touched by a song and when d situation calls for it.

3) i like texting more than talking on the phone! ( ya, even w/ my bf )

4) yeah i can drive… a car! crazy! ( or in bed perhaps! ) lol

5) I was an ugly duckling back in my elementary and high school days!

6) I am not afraid of the dark and ghosts n stuff like that! i’m afraid with real killers! lol

7) And oh by the way, i cry on some action movies i watch but never in a romantic or drama movie. ( i hate watching those )

I look like Rose Ann Gonzales ( a child star ) when i was younger. my bigbro really bought a noteback w/ rose ann on it’s cover and told mom i was her look-alike! ( but the black beauty version ) hahaha

9) i’m still kicking n alive when drunk drinking cases of redhorse beer but i’m a sleepy head w/ tequila! yay! gudnyt every1 enjoy! Zzzzz

10) I am addicted to myspace as well besides friendster.

11) I was bitten by a dog twice already! ( 1st was when i was 7 and 2nd was just last sept 9, 2006 ) i’m still alive though lol ( my mom spent almost 30,000 for the anti-rabies blah blah blah… injections here and there!) beat that?! i’m not afraid of needles either!

12) I was very shy when i was in grade school. ( still can’t forget what is written by my adviser on my report card )

13) I’m a fanatic of Piolo Pascual besides Paul Walker and Vin Diesel! ( yeah cheap! ) blehhh

14) I can consume 10 pieces of hanging rice (puso) in just one meal! ( honey my bitchfriend knew it )

15) I didn’t go to church for a very long time ago already and confessed only once in my entire life! ( when i was in 6th grade during our recollection and hell that sucks! )

16) My mom spent millions ( not really sure but close to that) on different dermatologists and products for my cystic acne! ( glad it’s gone! thank u Dr. Montelibano! )

17) I don’t read books but will read FHM cover to cover!

18) I have lots of boy friends than girl friends. yeah, i’m one of the boys and i get along w/ them easily!

19) I don’t know how to cook but hey, i can do the laundry for you!

20) When chatting at ym, i ignore all the chatters from asia ( yeah philippines is included! ) and the older guys too ( 35 y.o n above!) sorry…

21) I sometimes forget to wear a bra when going to school! i’m serious!

22) I’ve been truly, madly, deeply n crazily inlove twice only! ( 1st was RUEL DIAZ n the last was MACOI ) but it doesn’t mean i only got 2 bfs! lol

23) I rarely watch tv because of this myspace n friendster thing!

24) I bite my nails when watching horror movies ( when at home )

25) I have this ewww habit! picking my nose at home even there r family members who’s watching me! and hell even when i’m in my deep sleep i did that. ( ask mae, sheng n em-em they saw it )disgusting! ~shame~

26) I used to suck rice (til 2nd year high) even when i arrive n school already.

27) I still pee on my bed sometimes! lol

28) When my hemorrhoids attacks, i’l take paracetamol immediately! ( after defecating i expect fever n chills! ) ~weird~

29) I prefer guys older than me! don’t like the younger ones!

30) I consume 4-5 sachets of hair conditioner. i just leave it on to make my hair look wet.

31) I only got one bestfriend " honeylet juban" my bitchfriend! she knows me more than i know myself! but got lots of true friends though and i treasure all of them! lucky me!

32) I love massage!

33) I hate my VALUES EDUCATION teacher in high school ( yes you! ) until now! grrrrr can’t forget the words she said to us ( the magic 5-my closefriends )… she taught us values but she herself doesn’t have it! watch out for ur kids maam!

34) I love to live in the US of A!

35) I hate cebu city! idk… i just consider my life there as my worst nightmare! but i do love ozamis city ( my second home )

36) yes! i have a suicidal tendency.

37) I can consume 1 pack of cigarette in just 1 night! hell yeah!

38) i like personalized presents for any occasion than giving gifts w/o meanings! don’t like material things actually! but cigarettes will do! im serious!

39) i lost my virginity at the age of 18 3months after my debut party! shut up fellas! mind ur own business!

40) oh by the way, i love being hugged than being kissed!

41) I’m a daddy’s girl! i always sit beside him every meals and he’s giving me a 300 load for my phone every week and he sumtyms tolerates my shit! I’m more close to my cousins from dad’s side than cousins from my mom’s side! sorry cuz’s! har har har

42) Right now i am actually thinking what if whoever read this will tell the whole world about me! oh c’mon get a life bitch! mind ur own business! oh well, but then i post this so i’m ready for the consequences and i don’t give a shit! to hell w/ u people!

43) I like to have a tattoo on my lower back but would not do it here in philippines! ( luv to have it done outside of d country! )

44) I love lots of ice on my drinks and i eat them as well!

45) Like to eat ice-cream ( chocolate, double dutch, chocolate marble ) yum-yum!

46) I love to chew a frozen gum! ( yeah my bigbro n i have done it lots of times even if we’re already chewing the gum then we’ll leave it on the freezer for a couple of hours then chew it again! ) i know it’s ewww. to hell i care!

47) I snore. ( and rhaen recorded it on her phone lol )

48) I like to marry a white/caucasian! ( hell yeah! that’s my dream even when i was still a kid! ) idk…it’s maybe bcos of the breeding matter! lol ( of course, love is still my priority! )

49) i’m obsessed with my own photos! lol ( i’m a picture freak indeed ) shut up rhaen!

50) honestly, i’m not yet taking a shower bcos of this stuff! lol ( will i include this? j/k ) ok il get serious, i hate my aunt ( mom’s younger sister ) she slapped me when i was in 6th grade! after that, i never talk to her until now! my hatred is for a lifetime, so watch out!

~ whewww ~ That was fucking hard!

Now I challenge all of you to do this in your own blogs! It’s fun! mwahhh

For Women Only!

A little something i’m posting for all you ladez out there…

Actually, i’m getting rid of a lot of stuff in my inbox, but since i can’t part with most of them, i’m posting some of the stuff here and in the bulletin board… haha! =)

(just so i could read it still when i FEEL THE NEED TO BIIIITCH!!! hehe)

For Women Only

This is for women only. But if you’re a man and feel the need to know what I think women should know about men, women and relationships, read on at your own risk.

You cannot change a man. Your projects for change may see fruition – for a while, but not for long. So, if you’re in love with a man you want to change, you’ll have to learn to change (your mind) because he’s definitely not going to change (himself) – for you.

Beware of wolves in sheep’s clothing. They’re both charming and cunning. They know which buttons to push to make you smile, swoon and giddy under the moon. But remember, he knows what to say or do at the right time, every time, is usually not Mr. Right.

Avoid men afflicted with serial infidelity like the plague. Don’t make the mistake of welcoming a philanderer into your home or heart. Walk away and know that you are a better woman for having walked away from a lesser man.

Philanderer’s lie. This truth is inviolable. Lying is a philanderer’s best friend. No matter what sterling qualities a man possesses, if he philanders, you can cross him out of your list unless you’re a masochist. Make no room in your life for liars and cheats.

Beware of gestures. Dinner dates under the stars. Moonlit walks by the pounding tide. Floral masterpieces delivered to your doorstep. All these are designed to seduce you. Beware of the power of gestures. They have the power to deceive you.

Understand passion, passion is a delightful creation. Enjoy its pleasures but know that it does not come without peril. Practice passion with discipline. Remember that after the passion of a few moments, you have to live the reality for the rest of your life.

You have a choice. You may not be able to choose your feelings but you can choose how to act on those feelings. The ability to abstain is what separates you from the rest of nature. You can choose to succumb as you can choose to resist. Remember, you are who you choose.

You can break the pattern. But know that for things to change, you have to change first. If you keep falling for cads, maybe, that’s because you only look at cads. If you keep doing the same thing, you can’t expect a different result. Check out the men you’ve ignored.

You were born complete. You don’t need a man to complete you. You may have been brainwashed since birth to believe that a woman is worthless without a man. But your survival and significance is hedged on your own efforts and energies. The absence or presence of a man in your life is irrelevant. You define your life. No one else can do it for you.

You are a human being first before you are a woman. Do not allow yourself to be used or abused. You are not a bottomless pit of understanding and forgiveness. You are not a doormat. You are not a means to an end. You deserve the same respect and dignity as the next human being.

The next time you spot a man you like, think before you walk over. Deliberate before you fall over. Step back and allow a moment to rein in your passions. It could save you a long, miserable life or an unfortunate and untimely demise.

                   BITCHOLOGY

READ! READ! READ!

When I stand up for myself and my beliefs,
they call me a bitch.

When I stand up for those I love,
they call me a bitch.

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts,
or do things my own way, they call me a bitch.

Being a bitch means I won’t compromise what’s in
my heart. It means I live my life my way.
It means I won’t allow anyone to step on me

When I refuse to tolerate injustice and
speak against it, I am defined as a bitch.

The same thing happens when I take time for
myself instead of being everyone’s maid.

It means I have the courage and strength to
allow myself to be who I truly am and won’t
become anyone else’s idea of what
they think I "should" be.

I am outspoken, opinionated, and determined.
I want what I want and there is
nothing wrong with that!

So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner
flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold
within me. You won’t succeed. And if
that makes me a bitch, so be it.

I embrace the title and am proud to bear it !!!!

B = Babe
I = In
T = Total
C = Control of
H = Herself

B = Beautiful
I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C = Charming
H = Hell of a Woman

B = Beautiful
I = Individual
T = That
C = Can
H = Handle anything

SO TELL ME, CAN U HANDLE THIS?!

do you’s
1. do you think im cute?
2. do you want to kiss me?
3. do you want to cuddle wit me?
4. do you want to hook up with me?
5. do you think im smart?

are you’s
1. are you done with this survey?
2. are you happy you know me?
3. are you mad at me?
4. are you thinkin bout me?
5. are you going to repost this so that i will return the favor?

BEHIND THOSE SMILES ARE BLEEDING HEARTS AND SHATTERED DREAMS…

YOU SAID IT WILL STILL WORK OUT… YOU SAID I SHOULD HOLD ON… YOU SAID NOTHING WILL BE CHANGE!

BUT WHY??? YOU MADE ME BELIEVE! YOU’VE GIVEN ME HOPE… BUT THINGS DIDN’T COME OUT RIGHT and I’VE GOT NO ONE ELSE TO BLAME BUT ME! CAN’T BLAME YOU… IT’S MY FAULT, I KNEW IT FROM THE VERY START BUT I STILL GAMBLED COS I WAS HOPING THAT IT WOULD BE " US " I EXPECT SO MUCH FROM THIS RELATIONSHIP COS THIS IS ALREADY YOUR or LET’S SAY " OUR " SECOND CHANCE.

WELL, I JUST WANNA WISH YOU LUCK! I KNOW I SHOULD MOVE ON… IT AIN’T EASY THOUGH BUT I HAVE TO.

I’M STILL THANKFUL… YOU TAUGHT ME HOW TO LOVE AGAIN. THANK YOU FOR CHANGING ME AND THANK YOU FOR THE EIGHT MONTHS OF WONDERFUL MEMORIES!